My version of femininity
My name is Jaime-Lee Bradford and I am a kind woman with a twisted version of femininity. This is represented by my values, the things I do and the way I act. My version of femininity is extremely difficult as I basically lead two different path ways. At times I can be the careless, have fun woman, yet at the same time controlling, smart, responsible woman. For example, when times are not busy, when I am around other people and when I have opportunities to have fun I will. I am someone who will let go for a night and have an extremely memorable night, stereotypically not caring about anyone but myself. However other times I can be an extremely controlling, smart and responsible woman. When I am at school, at work, anywhere and I know it is time to work hard and be responsible I will. For example during test week at school, I am there to focus and concentrate on every lesson possible. Also on weekends, say the weekend before test block, I am responsible and I study hard. I banned myself from parties and other distractions. Yet one value I have for both pathways is kindness. No matter what pathway I am leading that day I will always be kind, as I believe being angry is just a waste of time. Therefore I am constructed as a woman who is kind, but has two different complex versions of femininity.